Forum Baby wish

How long can I keep this up?

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Tamara
Hi ladies,

After 2 years of going in and out of the hospital, the big blow after my miscarriage in August, and the mandatory break afterwards, I had my first ovulation without medical help in mid-September!! I was so happy to see that line on the test
We then nicely went at it every other day, and I finally felt like I was ready to move on. A few days after my ovulation, I started feeling nauseous and incredibly tired. I also suddenly started smelling everything much stronger and really had bouts of grumpiness. So we definitely had the feeling that it had worked again.
Unfortunately, I got my period this morning
It's yet another disappointment in a row, and I'm now realizing just how heavy all of this is. I also wonder how much longer I can hold out, even though giving up isn't an option for me. I've already made an appointment for the next IUI round, but I'm just in a pretty deep dip right now.

Anyone with any encouraging tips?

Best, Tamara

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  1. Lana #2

    Oh Tamara, what a story!
    I hope it works out for you soon. Remember why you're doing this. It just shows again that having a baby isn't as straightforward as some people think. I wish you lots of strength in the coming days and I hope it happens for you soon!
    Lots of love! xx
  2. Ylz #3

    I feel so bad for you! I also completely understand that you're getting tired of disappointment after disappointment and are on the verge of giving up. Please don't do that! That little one is hiding somewhere and will end up in your arms somehow. I really hope for the best for you!

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