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My ex's girlfriend (father of my daughter) claims she is older.

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Joyce2018
Good evening,
I'm sitting here with something. It's really none of my business, but I have the feeling that she's deceiving everyone.
My ex's girlfriend claims she's about 4 months pregnant. She wasn't sure if she wanted to keep it though. Well, outwardly it doesn't show much, but you really don't see anything on her, even though she already has 2 kids. Now they had a fight, and she says out of anger that she took 6 abortion pills at once.
I've scoured the internet to find out how far along you can take an abortion pill. I only found up to 9 weeks. She should be around 15/16 weeks.
Are there any women who have experience with this? And by this I mean abortion? I have a bad feeling about it, and my daughter is also around there. I'm worried.
Love, a concerned mother.

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  1. noortje28 #2

    It's actually quite impressive that she could have taken 6 abortion pills in the first place. You only get abortion pills through a hospital or abortion clinic and you're closely monitored. This means you get the first one at the clinic and the rest you take at home to induce a miscarriage. After that, you should have a follow-up appointment to check if everything is gone. Abortion pills are not available over the counter. The morning-after pill is, but that only works up to 72 hours after intercourse, I believe.

    She could be pregnant, but the story about the abortion pills seems pretty unlikely to me.

    If she's already 15/16 weeks along, wouldn't she have had an ultrasound or at least an appointment with a midwife by now? Did your ex really see proof that she was pregnant?

    It's none of your business really, but I completely understand your concern if your daughter gets involved. If she's lying about this, it makes her seem quite unstable, I think.
    Good luck!

  2. Joyce2018 started this #3

    According to her, she got them from a gynecologist. I read everywhere that you can only get them through an abortion clinic. I really think she's lying about the whole pregnancy. I think she's not even pregnant at all.
    I'm going to try to let it go, but it makes me so angry! Thanks for chatting with me.

  3. noortje28 #4

    You really don't just get them from a gynecologist! Then there must be something seriously wrong with your baby. And even then, she's at a stage where she should just be giving birth anyway. The gynecologist has better things to do. No way, I don't believe it. I think you really should just keep your dignity and let it go. She has the problem, not you

  4. Joyce2018 started this #5

    Thank you all for your response. ????

  5. Anonymous Guest #6

    Also, you only get abortion pills up to 7 weeks, and you have to take one there and one later. They really don’t give you 6. And you also have a mandatory consultation with someone from the clinic (or maybe even with the doctor) and a mandatory reflection period, etc. So I wouldn’t stress too much about it.

  6. Anonymous Guest #7

    Whether it's true or not, she sounds pretty unstable. I'd indeed wonder if your daughter should really be visiting. Who gets angry enough to take 6 abortion pills? You're not thinking rationally then. What's the agreement with your ex, and what does he think about your daughter running around in that situation?

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