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Need to finish. Relatable

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I'm now 36 weeks pregnant. Our sex life has been on a low key for a few months now. Despite that, I have a huge need to come.
Reading erotic stories and watching p... videos really gets us very excited.
Is that relatable for you guys?

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  1. Anonymous Guest #2

    Yeah. Probably because the area is better blood-flowed. I didn't check for P, but I definitely had a high sex drive during my pregnancy. Unfortunately, my man didn't dare anymore once he knew it was a hit...... he went 9 months dry

  2. Gast Guest #3

    So relatable! I'm 36 weeks tomorrow and I'm having a terrible time with it too. And to be honest, I do help myself out. My partner just doesn't touch me, so yeah.

  3. Klaartje Guest #4

    Hi Anonymous,
    What you're describing is so relatable. I also really need to climax. I went to my GP for this, but he just sent me away with the advice to talk about it at home.
    Long story short, my partner and I have split up, and I've never felt so free. My sex life has never been this good, even at 37 weeks pregnant.
    Don't beat yourself up over it, and follow your feelings!!!

  4. Leeuwtje #5

    For me, coming is a total nightmare. I'm only 6 weeks pregnant, but orgasms are no fun. Or rather, the time after. I get these awful stabbing/cramping pains that just aren't enjoyable anymore.

  5. Merel #6

    Leeuwtje, didn't you usually have that?

  6. Leeuwtje #7

    No, not at all. Since I’ve been pregnant...

  7. Merel #8

    Maybe because your BMM is too well-perfused?

  8. Anonymous Guest #9

    What is bmm?

  9. Leeuwtje #10

    Cervix?...

  10. Anonymous Guest #11

    Haha, creepy.

  11. Joyce2018 #12

    Good afternoon, I'm just 5 and a half weeks pregnant. I do have a desire for sex, but it doesn't feel good. I seem to be tighter, and after orgasm, I get cramps in my lower abdomen. This slowly goes away after going to the toilet. Is this just the beginning, or can I expect this throughout my whole pregnancy? Help

  12. Merel #13

    I don't know if that's just the beginning, Joyce! I was lucky not to have it when I was pregnant. Well, everything there is better blood-circulated and therefore can be more sensitive, but I haven't heard it narrower? Do you feel that yourself or does your man say that? Congratulations with the pregnancy!

  13. Joyce2018 #14

    I totally feel that way too. Even when I'm just walking????

  14. Merel #15

    How does that feel then? Does sex not hurt then? I think it's because of the increased blood flow!

  15. Anonymous Guest #16

    I’ve been feeling more like myself than usual. I usually manage to get through it on my own.
    It’s a hormone thing. With the first one, I really struggled. I couldn’t think of anything else all day.
    The cramps afterward are from your uterus contracting. It can feel a bit uncomfortable, but it’ll pass once your uterus relaxes.
    It definitely won’t harm the baby.

  16. Joyce2018 #17

    I can't really explain how it feels, but I think it's probably due to blood circulation. Sex doesn't feel good right now. But let's wait and see.

  17. Merel #18

    Maybe it really helps if you help yourself? Maybe that helps you relax better?

  18. Merel #19

    I think it varies from woman to woman and man to man!

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