Thanks for your replies so far! I'm leaning more towards F.aya. That way I stay in the 4-letter trend ???? D.anée will probably be her middle name.
F.aya D.anée
Faya always reminds me of my internship in Amsterdam Bijlmer... kids there used to shout "FAYA!" (fire = Surinamese or something) when something went wrong or they didn't like something, like a kind of "SHIT!" you know.. Since then, I don't think Faya is suitable as a name anymore. So I'd choose Danee!
When I google "faya", the first hit is indeed a slang dictionary. I definitely don't live in "the big city", so no one here knows it as slang, only as a name. Are there others who associate the name with slang? Or not?
I also use Faya a lot myself (as street slang).
I wouldn't do it because she wants to live in the big city later on (probably no one will use street slang anymore) and then she'll be made fun of every time, or when she goes to high school in a bigger city or even just in her own city. I can't imagine that they don't use street slang anywhere; they do use it everywhere (maybe without you even realizing it).
Or you might move to the big city yourself in a few years for work, for example (you never know).
And also what anna1986 said: later on she might get a Surinamese boyfriend or just friends who are Surinamese, and then you'll have that situation.............