Biechthoekje
confusion
I'd like to share this with you all, hoping to get some advice and tips
I've been divorced for a few years and shortly after met a really lovely man whom I've been living with for quite some time now!
He's incredibly kind to my kids and we're trying for a new little miracle.
But... things have happened that can't be put right. My ex, the father of the kids, wants or still wants sex with me. I notice that it keeps occupying my mind.
Even though I'm actually really happy! Help girls, what should I do?
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Anoniem Guest #2
When I read your question and the way you describe your story, I think you already know deep down what you should and shouldn’t do in this situation. -
Boompje Guest #3
You know what you have now and what you've had... do you really want to let go of what you have now?? -
anoniempje started this #4
No no, absolutely not! -
Knuffel #5
Sex with your ex... DON'T DO IT! You'll mess up so much that you'll end up regretting it deeply. -
anoniempje started this #6
Yes, I know it, I don't do it either!
You recognize my story, so you do too? -
Knuffel #7
Oh no, absolutely not you!
But if you have a good relationship and your marriage has fallen apart... Can it really never get better? -
anoniempje started this #8
Exactly the right words. ...
But!! sometimes you can start romanticizing things again...
Too much in your head -
Knuffel #9
Time to do some romantic things with your own guy.. Take a little getaway together. It'll do you both good! -
anoniempje started this #10
Well, that's really sweet of you to respond here, thanks!!!!! -
Biebsie #11
It could also just be that your ex is jealous and is trying to sabotage your new relationship this way.
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