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Marissa
Hi!
I have a question. I'm 10 days late today... I took a test on the 8th day and this morning, both were negative... Yesterday I had a little tingling in my breasts, and today it's back... Could I be pregnant, or is it just the stress making me feel things and delaying my period?

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  1. Marissa started this #2

    I see that my question has been viewed quite a bit, but there’s no reply anywhere. Is there a reason for that, or do I need to do or fill in something?

  2. Jenny00 #3

    That uncertainty is annoying. It's possible you're pregnant, but it could also very well be that your period is delayed due to stress. Sometimes your hormonal balance is just a bit off for a month, and your period comes a little later than usual.
    If you don't get your period on Monday and don't feel confident, maybe you could give your GP a call for advice?

  3. Marissa started this #4

    Yeah, tomorrow is the 12th day I’m overdue... Tomorrow morning I’m going to do one more test and then I’ll call my doc... like yesterday and today. My breasts are free from tension, which I’ve never had before. Hoping for a little one after all this time; it would be very welcome...

  4. Jenny00 #5

    I'm cheering for you, hoping for good news
    How long have you been trying for a baby?

  5. Marissa started this #6

    Next April marks 2 years since I stopped taking the pill...

  6. Jenny00 #7

    Ah, that is quite a long time, yes. Have you been trying to conceive all that time?

    I also stopped the pill years ago, but we didn't immediately start trying. Unfortunately, I know how long it can take; it remains difficult.

    If you've been trying for more than a year, it's definitely advisable to talk to your GP about it. Maybe they can help you out.

  7. Marissa started this #8

    When I stopped, it was really like "let's see what happens." If it doesn't work out right away, then okay, if it does, great, welcome...
    And because of work, we can't have sex a few times a week, but more on the weekends, so I thought, well, maybe a bit longer... I was planning to go to the doctor starting in January, but somehow I thought it would work out... until now I got my period on Feb 22 and didn't get anything, not even a little discharge... Since it's not coming, you start to get a bit anxious, like every woman probably does... Last week I had some very light cramps, but nothing else... On the 8th and 10th days I took a test, both negative... Last Friday night I felt some tingling in my breasts, but I thought I was imagining it, but yesterday and today it's really clear... m

  8. Marissa started this #9

    Just took another test and it's negative again. I'm getting more and more stressed about this... I also called the doctor right away, but I'll call back later to see about making an appointment... Only now I haven't had any breast pain yet, and it was pretty bad yesterday and the day before. Can it vary from day to day?

  9. Jenny00 #10

    I completely understand why that would stress you out. If I were you, I’d definitely pop by the GP for a check-up—that way, you’ll at least get some more clarity on whether everything’s okay at the moment. It’s really strange that it’s taking so long all of a sudden, especially since that’s never been the norm for you.

    I’m crossing my fingers for some good news Let us know how it went if you make an appointment?

  10. Marissa started this #11

    Called this morning and just had blood drawn... Will call back tomorrow evening for the results... I really HOPE that after almost 2 years we'll get something beautiful now. I'm so nervous hiihii

  11. Jenny00 #12

    Went to bed early tonight so tomorrow comes faster. And especially plan your day well tomorrow

  12. Marissa started this #13

    Haha, the only thing to do is hope... but I think the tests aren't lying, it seems like after 3 times today I haven't had any symptoms at all.

  13. Marissa started this #14

    Had this morning a whole lot of reddish discharge after going to the toilet... Heard about the rash at the end of the day, but unfortunately, I don't think I'm pregnant. But now I'm wondering if it could be something that came out or if it's related to me.

  14. Marissa started this #15

    Today I got the results, unfortunately unfortunately negative. A bit sad because secretly I still had hope... Tomorrow I have an appointment with the doctor for tests to find out why it hasn't worked after almost 2 years...

  15. Jenny00 #16

    Oh, that's so disappointing, Marissa. It's always a letdown when you want it so much.
    It's good that they're going to check if everything is okay with you, that's nice to know. Big hug

  16. Marissa started this #17

    Thank you so much and sweet of you to reply...

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