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kimmieGuest ·
Ladies!!
I'm just popping in to share my story.. I recently stopped the pill and on 9/30 was the first day of my last period. Then I had a withdrawal bleed for 5 days. After that I had quite a few ailments which made me eventually really think I was pregnant. I also think I felt my egg around the 13th/14th but now I'm doubting that because of the following:
Over the past few days I've gone through quite a few tests (seriously). Last Thursday and Friday negative tests and last Saturday morning I immediately saw a 2nd line appear very faintly ... it was minimal and not really a wide line but it wasn't grey ... Then I did another test and the line was barely visible anymore, 2 hours later I did another test and on this one there was really nothing to see. In the evening (yep, one more) I did another test and on this one it was visible again but you really had to look closely. Sunday I tested again and this was negative, just like the test on Monday and last Tuesday night at 05.00 I lost some blood. That day I lost some blood but not significant, yesterday morning a little bit and this morning/afternoon a little bit too but I can't really call it a period. No panty liner or tampon full... I feel like my breasts have been a bit more sensitive and tighter since last night. Also cramps in the lower right part of my belly towards my groin but I had those quite badly last week Mon, Tue and Wed, as well as pain in my lower back. Very occasionally a slight wave of nausea.
As you can imagine I'm now really wondering where I stand .. I thought I was having my period and my 1st cycle was then 33 days, fine.. but now I'm wondering, did I really have my period, is this normal? So short and light? Suppose it's implantation, was the test from last Saturday then a false positive (given it was so light and only visible on 1 test) or is it a bleed due to the embryo not being able to implant further? Who else has experienced this?

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  1. kimmie started this #2

    The bleeding is, by the way, bright red and then dark red again, sometimes with a small clot. So I've had bleeding for 3 days now, but not constant or very heavy.
  2. Ster #3

    I think that because you want to be pregnant so badly, you're holding back your period. Once you let go, it'll come and you can move on to the next round. Don't get me wrong, I do this a lot. I was even "pregnant" for a few months once because I wanted a baby so much. So my advice: I really believe you're not pregnant right now, and let yourself move on to the next round. Good luck!

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