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In the race for the first baby

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Majo85
Hi there,

Are there more people who have been trying for a while? Waiting every month... Ugh!

We've been trying for about a year now but no result yet.
Had tests at the gynecologist but nothing came up... which is good actually, because then it should be possible...
I just sometimes get unsure, will it work?
Do more people here struggle with this?

Love,

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  1. lisa #2

    Hi Marjo,
    It’s really nerve-wracking, isn’t it? We haven’t been at it for very long, but I still find each round so stressful. You’re just more involved than you’d like to be, especially in your case. It’s good that nothing came out of the tests, but I can imagine it’s really frustrating...

  2. Majo85 started this #3

    Yeah, and I didn't really focus on it much in the first few months.
    Maybe that's also the reason why it hasn't happened yet; I only really started feeling like "now I'm 100% ready" in the last 3 months.. or does that sound weird?
    How long have you guys been trying?
    Indeed frustrating that you don't want to focus on it, but you are anyway.
    You start paying attention to everything like drinking, then I think oh which week am I in now? Is that possible?
    Let's just hope it hits soon..

  3. lisa #4

    I don't think it's weird at all that you're only now 100% ready for it. I think it always takes some time... you're entering a process where you're never sure when the time will come. We've been at it for 3 months now, so that's not too bad.
    And I totally relate to being careful... after ovulation I don't drink any alcohol anymore and I'm also very careful with what I eat... just to be safe. I hope it'll happen for both of us soon!

  4. Majo85 started this #5

    Hi Lisa,

    How are you doing?
    I took a pregnancy test last week..! I'm now entering the 6th week so it's exciting!
    First ultrasound on October 5th.. I'm so curious if everything is okay.

    Love,

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