Forum Baby wish

How do I deal with this?

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Bloempje123
Hi everyone!
I'm new here...
I've got a problem, well, for myself... I'm not even sure if I've posted this in the right place.

But I think we've been trying for a baby for about 5 months now Only now I found out that my boyfriend masturbates while I'm at work. I find it really hard to deal with, not that I feel like I'm not enough for him, not at all. It's just the idea...

How do you all deal with this? ????

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  1. Bloempje123 started this #2

    Mama2, thanks for your reply... I found out that the tissues are used up so quickly... and saw it on his phone...
    Well, we don't have sex that often. About 1-2 times a week, roughly.

    He doesn't know about this, and he'd rather not tell either...
  2. Nannie ❤ #3

    Did you see it on his phone?
  3. * #4

    Did he make a video on his phone or was there semen on his phone? inch:
  4. Nannie ❤ #5

    Haha, damn it, mom! I was holding it in, but you just said it out loud, hahaha.
  5. Bloempje123 started this #6

    Haha, no, that’s not what I meant either
    But porn sites....
  6. Nannie ❤ #7

    Oh, good thing haha, though I wouldn't like it at all if I found out about it. Isn't it a good idea to take some sexy pictures of yourself for him, or have him take some of you? Better than those silly selfies on his phone, I think...

    But it could be that he does this, but I'd make it clear to him not to do it during your fertile days, because every other day is best then, and you need those sperm!
  7. Justine Guest #8

    Hi,
    I’ve got a question that’s been on my mind for a while.
    My boyfriend really wants kids, and we’ve been together for 7 years now.

    I don’t know how to handle this, and I’ve got a bad feeling about it. Is it because I’m unsure myself? Am I just insecure?

    Best,
    Justine

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