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anoniemGuest ·
Hi,
Does anyone have tips for this?
I'm 17 weeks pregnant now, and my hormones are playing havoc with me.
Quick to cry, quickly irritated with my husband.
My husband and I had a huge fight 2 weeks ago.
In panic and crying, I went to the OB-GYN with a lot of tension-related stomach pain, scared something was wrong with the baby. I probably told my (story) there and also said things about my husband that weren't true...
Now I don't want the doctor to think my husband is violent, or worse...
I feel ENORMOUS regret that I went to the doctor in a panic that day and probably said a lot of things that don't matter...
Next week I have an appointment with the OB-GYN again, for an ultrasound, and my husband will naturally come along since everything is fine between us again.
Any ideas on how I can make this right (with the doctor?)
Does anyone have tips for this?
I'm 17 weeks pregnant now, and my hormones are playing havoc with me.
Quick to cry, quickly irritated with my husband.
My husband and I had a huge fight 2 weeks ago.
In panic and crying, I went to the OB-GYN with a lot of tension-related stomach pain, scared something was wrong with the baby. I probably told my (story) there and also said things about my husband that weren't true...
Now I don't want the doctor to think my husband is violent, or worse...
I feel ENORMOUS regret that I went to the doctor in a panic that day and probably said a lot of things that don't matter...
Next week I have an appointment with the OB-GYN again, for an ultrasound, and my husband will naturally come along since everything is fine between us again.
Any ideas on how I can make this right (with the doctor?)
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Anonymous Guest #2
If all goes well, your OB-GYN won't say anything when you come back with your partner. They're also bound by confidentiality. Honestly, I don't really understand why you said things that weren't true? You're better off sharing your story with your friends
But... on the other hand... hormones can do weird things to you. And you can honestly tell your OB-GYN that... they won't be surprised. If you get a question or a look like "Sorry about last week... I don't always have control over my hormones." -
anoniem started this #3
Honestly, I don't know why I did that. Pure hormones and 'mind on zero', I guess.
My husband wants me to apologize to the OB-GYN first (especially for his sake), and then I hope the OB-GYN won't bring it up... -
Chelsea #4
The annoying part is, at least that's how I see it, that the OB/GYN puts everything in your profile. Everything I ask, even embarrassing questions or regular general ones, she puts it in there. I complained a while back about a lot of discharge, with different colors and smells. Then she recommended me that antifungal pill from the ad, the one you can get at the drugstore. A few weeks later I had an ultrasound, so I had my mom and my cousin with me, and of course my husband, she just asks like where everyone is sitting if that pill helped, Cerestan or something? I almost sank through the floor from embarrassment!
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