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Pregnant after an abortion
TinnekeGuest ·
Last year I had an abortion. I was in a really tough situation then. I had been off the pill for a month for health reasons. And apparently got pregnant by accident just once.
Now, a year later, life is smiling on me and we're trying for a baby.
Same man. Now I'm scared that it was just a huge fluke back then and a one-time thing. We've been trying for 4 rounds now. I know that's not very long. But what if the man has reduced fertility and it was a lucky shot back then. Can that be?
Now, a year later, life is smiling on me and we're trying for a baby.
Same man. Now I'm scared that it was just a huge fluke back then and a one-time thing. We've been trying for 4 rounds now. I know that's not very long. But what if the man has reduced fertility and it was a lucky shot back then. Can that be?
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Livi #2
Has your husband been tested for fertility?
Well, my son and miscarriage were from the first try. Now it took me about 11 cycles to get pregnant. And this month it worked, I think because I let go and just felt naturally attracted to something. I had given up on getting pregnant and was like, "It won't happen anyway!" And then—bam!
So you have to try not to try and just let go. Don't put too much pressure on yourself and your husband. This helped us. This month we really started enjoying each other again, and that helped us out.
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