Extra thick

Fleur, can you tell me again why you want to gain extra weight? I didn't quite get your last message.

To answer your question: you don't really have control over that yourself. How much or little you gain... I've gained about 12 kg now. I hope about 5 kg stays on after my pregnancy. I felt a bit too skinny before, so I didn't do anything special to limit myself to just 12 kg. Some ladies gain 10 kg, others gain 20 kg.

Do you want to get back to your current weight afterwards, or do you want to stay heavier? Because you don't really have control over that either.

That's why I think my first question is so important. If you just want to "bulk up," you could also go to a dietitian, even if it sounds weird. You just need to let that person know about your desire for a child. Because actually dieting during pregnancy isn't healthy. So I don't know if a special diet to gain weight is healthy during pregnancy either...

Why do you have such a strong need for that?
When you become artificially pregnant, the chance of having multiples is greater, but the most beautiful thing would still be if nature just does its thing, right?

I bet it's another case of attention deficit.

Girl, just act normal for a sec.

Ah okay, she wrote "triplets"...
I also wonder why you'd specifically want triplets? A pregnancy with more than one baby always has a higher risk of complications. Also premature birth or problems during delivery with a health issue that lasts a lifetime for one or all three kids (I've experienced that up close).

She might also mean it in a normal way, but I read it as her wanting to look/pregnant like other women, with a belly like you're pregnant with triplets or maybe just pregnant with multiples. That's also a mystery to me

I think she just wants to gain weight, haha. You shouldn't use pregnancy for that! Bringing a life into the world is something very serious! And there are plenty of women who gain little to nothing during pregnancy anyway. There are plenty of other ways to gain weight. You shouldn't use something as special as pregnancy for that—be ashamed if that's really your intention!

I’m not naturally the slimmest, and I really don’t want to get too heavy. I’m 9 weeks pregnant now and stay nicely active, I don’t eat for two either, of course varied and healthy. So I don’t know how you come to want to get fatter. I hope it’s not because of your age that it’s a game, because putting an 8-pounder or more into the world is no joke. My little brother was one and now really has to watch his weight.

How coincidental that there are always 3lings in the little story... Felicia... anonymous 93340... guest 1 guest 2....... I won't mention a real name now... the rest know who's behind it again.. pffff exhausting such a forum

It's getting a bit annoying like this....
And our attention-seeker has such a terrible failed writing style..