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What should I do?

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AnoniemGuest ·
Hi, I'm really struggling right now. I haven't been feeling well lately, so I took a pregnancy test. Now I don't know how to tell my parents. My dad is going to be absolutely furious. The problem is, I'm only 13.
Do you know what I should do?

Gr. Helpless girl

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  1. Anonymous Guest #2

    But girl, how can you even think about having sex so early?! And even more importantly, unprotected?! I totally agree with your dad getting angry!

  2. Anonymous Guest #3

    But that's just how it is. You shouldn't keep carrying this around. Talk to your parents or a trusted adult, and abortion seems like the best option. You're way too young for motherhood. The sooner you tell your parents, the better. Lots of strength and good luck!!!

  3. Anoniem started this #4

    What should the photo represent?

  4. Nannie ❤ #5

    Try to stay calm and indeed, don't keep this to yourself! Your parents love you unconditionally. Yes, they will be angry, but this comes from care and love for you; you're their child. I think abortion is also the best option in this case, depending on how far along you are.

    Please, discuss it with your parents no matter how difficult it is; in the end, it will all be okay.

  5. Hulpeloos meisje Guest #6

    The problem is that I'm already 6 months along and

  6. Nannie ❤ #7

    Then make the best of it, Meis. You don't have to do this alone. Your parents will surely support you, even if they're a bit shocked at first. And if you're stuck, you can seek support from foundations like Teen Parents; you can find them on Google. They're happy to give you advice, and sometimes even shelter if needed.

  7. madelene #8

    Wow, that's really young. Maybe you should confide in someone else? I think it's better if you talk to someone about it.

  8. Figaroa #9

    Crazy people here with crazy questions and crazy photos

  9. Mimi #10

    Have you told your parents yet?

  10. Anonymous #11

    It's already a post from September 9th last year. Hopefully it turned out okay for the girl too, although I find the whole story a bit unbelievable since she was suddenly 6 months pregnant..... Or she must have really been very overweight on her own, but otherwise a 6-month belly would definitely stand out on a 13-year-old, I think....

  11. Anoniempjuh Guest #12

    Holy fuck, why the hell did you let yourself get pregnant at 13? Why?!?

  12. Loes Guest #13

    I don’t quite get how your parents haven’t been informed yet if you’re only 13. A GP can choose whether or not to involve your parents until age 16, with your consent. Seems really strange that this hasn’t been done and you’re dealing with this alone.

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